The most essential part of a blowjob is to keep your lips tight on his cock whilst keeping your teeth away from it.
Practise makes perfect- try getting the technique down using a dildo or an adequately shaped fruit of vegetable of your choice.
A cock is like an elongated clit; try thinking of how you would like to be touched and sucked.
Paying attention to the sounds of your partner is also essential. This lets you know what they like best.
- Sensitive Spots:
Paying extra attention to the most sensitive parts of his cock. These include:- The tip
- Head
- Frenulum (underside of the head of the cock)
- Testicles (be very gentle)
- Perineum (between the testicles and the anus).
He will also enjoy plenty attention on the shaft of his cock. Gently squeezing the base of his cock will trap more blood, making him harder and more sensitive. A cock ring can also be used to this effect.
- Use your hands:
Sometimes your partner’s cock is more than a mouthful. Using your hand in front of your mouth will give a good extension of depth, and will give him great sensations as well as easing up your job.
You can also use your hands to gently caress his balls, thighs, pubic bone, perineum and ass, listen for moans which are the best indicator of which area he likes you to caress.
Another way to use your hands in conjunction with your mouth is to meet in the middle of his cock. Going down with your mouth and up with your hand to meet in the middle of the shaft and vice versa will create an amazing feeling for him. My boyfriend described it as waves of warmth going up the centre of his cock. He loves this!
Using an edible lube will make all of this easier and more pleasant for both parties. Don’t forget, gentle sucking is very important.
- Involving other areas:
You can use your mouth on other parts of his body whilst still stroking his cock. Kissing or licking his thighs, balls, perineum in addition to stroking will drive him wild.
- Play with flavours:
Some people are opposed to blowjobs due to the taste of their partners cock. Adding a flavoured lube, chocolate body paint, ice cream or whatever floats your boat will add to your comfort.
- Play with his senses:
Blowjobs should be fun so if you want to spice it up try playing with temperature and sensations.
Taking a drink of a warm or cold liquid (water, tea etc) will make a change from the normal blowjob and excite him even more. Another thing to try is using something fizzy (water, champagne) or even toothpaste to give him a tingling sensation. Ice cubes can also be used. Make sure you ask your partner what they would like; this is not a time to be making assumptions and getting it wrong.
Men also enjoy when you hum and moan when their cock is in your mouth. This causes vibrations and also lets him know you are enjoying it too, men love to know their woman likes to suck his cock! Lots of men like the visual element of the blowjob. Showing him that you are enjoying it just as much as he is will increase his pleasure. Glancing at him briefly in the eyes is also exciting for him; but staring will probably freak him out.
Stick to these basic principals and you wont fail to please your man.
Feel free to add any of your own tips and techniques in the comments section
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Feel free to add any of your own tips and techniques in the comments section
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